Yin and Yang and the Relationship Remodel Rule

I have read a hundred million times that a remodel is a sure way to break a relationship or at least severely damage it. We are the exception. I know, I know, everyone says that in the beginning. But I really think we are the exception. Colin and I are so similar and yet so different and because of that we balance each other out nicely. He wants to go really slow and plan and plan and plan and plan. I want to DO, now! His focus is the HVAC and how things will work. My focus is everything must be pretty and made of copper. (Don't worry... I am reining myself in with the copper thing.) He is an idea producer and I am the budget enforcer. Sometimes I am lazy and my bicepts hurt and I lay on the floor while he angle grinds the ceiling out. And sometimes he lays on the sofa while I sledgehammer out a closet. You see? Yin and yang. Exempt from the relationship remodel rule.